The
Festive Purim Meal
It is a
Mitzvah to have a sumptuous meal on Purim, including meat and
wine.
This
meal is held during the day. If one holds it at night, he fails
to fulfill his obligation. Nevertheless, after the reading of
the Megillah on the night of the 14th (in 'unwalled cities'), or
on the night of the 15th after the Megillah Reading (in 'walled
cities'), one's meal should be somewhat more festive than usual.
One should wear festival clothing and rejoice.
The
main Purim meal is held Purim afternoon and is preceded by
Minchah. The meal is extended into the night. Most of the meal
should, however, be during the day.
When
Purim falls on Erev Shabbat, the meal is held early, and is
concluded sufficiently before Shabbat for one to be able to
partake of the Shabbat meal with a good appetite. Some follow
the practice of extending their meal till Shabbat arrives. They
then place a Shabbat tablecloth on the table, recite Kiddush,
and continue their meal.
The
Custom to drink during the Festive meal
The
miracle of Purim occurred through wine. Vashti was removed from
her throne because of a wine-feast and Esther replaced her. The
downfall of Haman was brought about through the wine feasting
which Esther held. And through the repentance of the Jews, they
expiated their sin in having drunk wine at the feast of
Achashverosh
Our
Sages of blessed memory, therefore, prescribed the drinking of
wine on Purim till intoxication, and they said: 'A person is
obligated to drink on Purim till he no longer knows the
difference between 'Cursed-is-Haman,' and 'Blessed-is-Mordechai.'
In the case, however, of one whose health may be harmed by
excessive drinking of wine; or who fears that he might come to
levity thereby; or that he might forget the required brachot or
prayer - drinking till intoxication is not required. It is
sufficient for such a person to drink a little more than is his
usual habit, and to take a nap. He thereby fulfills the precept
of the Sages: For one who sleeps does not know the difference
between a curse and blessing.
The
reason for holding the Purim feast towards evening rather than
in the morning, as is the case with other 'Seudot Mitzvah',
obligatory feasts, Shabbat or Yom Tov, on Shabbat or Yom Tov is
that people are busy sending gifts to their friends during the
morning hours.
The
Gaon of Vilna gave an explanation which is alluded to in the
Megillah: The Purim feast is held in memory of the feast held by
Esther for Achashverosh and Haman. She held her feast the third
day of the fast, two hours before the advent of night. All
Israel fasted the full three days and three nights. Esther alone
did not fast the entire third day because of the feast. And this
matter is alluded to in Esther's words to Mordechai: 'And I and
my maidens will also fast thus.' The Hebrew equivalent for
'thus' is 'ken,' and the numerical value of the two letters
which comprise the word 'ken,' is seventy. That is to say - 'I
will fast only seventy hours, whereas all Israel are to fast
seventy-two hours.'
The
Significance of the Purim Feast
The
Purim Feast is especially significant in that it elevates the
soul as it provides pleasure to the body. It is thus stated in
the Zohar that on Purim one may accomplish through bodily
pleasure, what he can accomplish on Yom Kippur through bodily
affliction.
The
people of Israel are invested with bodily holiness as well as
with spiritual holiness. And it is proper for their physical
actions to be sanctified always, and to be done for the sake of
G-d alone. As long, however, as AmaIek exists, he corrupts the
purity of Israel's actions. When Amalek's power is weakened and
he is subjugated, the physical actions of Israel are again
purified.
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