The
Final Countdown
Now
that
you have your reasons lined up,
your family and friends are ready to stand by
you during the fortnight long physical withdrawal,
you also know step by step the psychological
and emotive mind frames to follow,
The
time has come to begin the
final countdown before you stamp out cigarettes once and for all.
Do
remember being an addict you have cigarettes so tied up into your
lifestyle that when you give up smoking, you will feel that you
are giving up all activities associated with cigarettes.
Considering these activities include almost everything you do,
from the time you awake to the time you fall asleep, life would
appear not to be worth living as an ex-smoker. In all
probability you may also be afraid that you will experience the
painful withdrawal symptoms from not smoking as long as you
deprives yourself of cigarettes. Considering all this,
quitting smoking creates a greater fear than dying from smoking.
This is the problem with all your smoker friends who like you are
standing on the verge of quitting.
If
the smoker were correct in all his assumptions of what life as an
ex-smoker were like, then maybe it would not be worth it to quit.
But all these assumptions are wrong. There is life
after smoking, and withdrawal does not last forever. Trying
to convince the smoker of this, though, is quite an uphill battle.
These beliefs are deeply ingrained and are conditioned from the
false positive effects experienced from cigarettes.
The
smoker often feels that he needs a cigarette in order to get out
of bed in the morning. Typically, when he awakes he feels a
slight headache, tired, irritable, depressed and disoriented. He
is under the belief that all people awake feeling this way. He
is fortunate though, because he has a way to stop these horrible
feelings. He smokes a cigarette or two. Then he begins
waking up and feels human again. Once he is awake, he feels he
needs cigarettes to give him energy to make it through the day.
When he is under stress and nervous, the cigarettes calm him down.
Giving up this wonder drug seems ludicrous to him.
What
we derive from the above para is that
every smoker including you will have to counter certain triggers
specially during the first few days of quitting. These triggers
may be activities/ situations/ circumstances etc when previously
you used to smoke. Thus
the next step in quitting is drawing up a list of all such
possible triggers. After you have done that go
two steps ahead of the nicotine
that's plotting against your attempt to break free from its
absolute mastery over you. In other words figure out in advance
what
exactly you will do when the trigger tries to get the better of
you. Employ
the help of family and friends, not only in deciding on plausible
alternative behavior that you could practice but also for making
the list of triggers. To help you with this, beneath is a table of
triggers and possible steps that could be taken. Add to this list
specific triggers pertaining to you.
Triggers
&
Alternative
behavior |
Getting
out of bed |
Deep
Breathing/ Tell yourself just for this day you will not
smoke, tomorrow you will think of tomorrow (one day at a
time approach) |
Sitting
on the commode
Read the news paper, should keep both your hands busy |
At
the breakfast table
Have
fresh fruit juice/ carrot sticks etc |
Having
Alcohol
Avoid if possible/ take up some hobby to get you through
your leisure hours (painting/ swimming/ basket ball/ tennis/
golf etc) |
Driving
to work |
Remove
car ashtrays/ drive with the AC on making it imperative to
draw up the windows/ Listen to soothing music |
Beginning
the days work at Office |
Put
up no smoking signs on your desk/ Glance through the list of
reasons fixed beneath your glass table top while the
computer boots/ Put up a desktop wall paper on your PC
saying "I am proud to have left smoking, hope someday
you will join me." |
After
the boss shouts at you/ excessive work pressure/ argument
with someone |
Practice
doing deep breathing/ say to yourself smoking will not solve
the problem/ Consult our section on stress
management. |
Lunch
Break/ Occasional coffee break with friends |
Have
lunch with a beautiful lady or handsome man as the case may
be (opposite sex) who appreciates not smoking/ sit in the
non smoking section of the cafeteria/ try carrot or apple
slices |
After
lunch or any meal |
Try
out sugarless chewing gum/ play a computer game/ spend two
minutes with the Rubik cube or some other puzzle allowing
time for the urge to pass over |
While
watching TV |
Cuddle
your pet/ use carrot or apple slices |
While
walking |
Sugarless
Chewing gum/ walk with free swing of both of arms |
While
talking on the phone |
How
about jotting down relevant points from your conversation
while speaking with a pencil (should keep both hands busy) |
Watching
somebody else smoke |
Have
pride for oneself and pity for the other (Pride in oneself
is very important to prevent relapse) |
At
bed time |
Congratulate
yourself for not smoking/ put aside the money in a small
little piggy bank or container/ count the amount and think
about all the marvelous things you could do with the money
if you save for a week/ a month/ a year |
Do
remember that these are emergency measures and are necessary to
get you through the acute phase of withdrawal, the first few days.
Take them one day at a time. The
real obstacle in quitting is the psychological dependence on
cigarettes. Most smokers are convinced smoking is essential
in performing many normal daily activities. Dealing with
stress, working, driving, eating, sleeping, waking up, relaxing -
just about everything requires smoking. These are the
triggers that you got to watch out for. The only way to overcome
this perceived dependence is by proving to oneself that all
activities done with cigarettes can be done equally well without
cigarettes. Just living through the first few days and
functioning in normal required roles will prove that the smoker
can survive without cigarettes. These alternative behaviors can
safely be put aside once you have got through the first fortnight.
There will be an occasional urge which will last only a few
seconds, neglect it and very soon you will forget about the need
to light up. As time passes by these urges will be more and more
infrequent and you would have successfully stamped out a life
consuming addiction. It may be difficult, but it is
possible.
Once
the initial quitting process is overcome, the rest is simple. You
will no 0t only feel better but will be able to cope with life
more efficiently than when you were a smoker. No longer will
you drag out of bed feeling horrible. Now you will wake up
feeling well rested and refreshed. In general, you will be
calmer than when you smoked. Even when under stress, you
normally will not experience the panic reactions you used to feel
whenever your nicotine level used to fall below acceptable levels.
The belief that cigarettes are needed for energy is one of
the most deceptive of all. Almost any ex-smoker will attest
that he has more strength, endurance, and energy than he ever did
as a smoker. And the fear of prolonged withdrawal also has
no merit, for withdrawal symptoms would peak within three days,
and totally subside within two weeks.
If
you just give yourself the chance to really feel how nice not
smoking is, you will no longer harbor the irrational fears which
have made you maintain this deadly addiction for so long. You
will find life will become simpler, happier, cleaner, and most
importantly healthier, than when you were a smoker. Sure there
will still be times when you will want a cigarette. But you
must realize that you do not have the luxury of only one. Because
you are a nicotine addict, smoking is now, and always has been an
all or none proposition. Any exposure to nicotine will put you
back to square one, i.e. full fledged addiction. So once you quit
remember to stamp out any urge that arises, the first time, every
time.
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